Private questionnaire · 28 questions
Cross-border marriage and relocation to the United States
Международный брак и переезд в США
For couples from different countries who want to discuss the immigration path, money, work, housing, cultural differences, children, and each person's independence before marriage or relocation.
28 questions · about 13 minutes
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Before you beginThis is an educational conversation questionnaire—not a test of whether a marriage is “real,” legal advice, or an immigration filing. Do not enter case numbers, passport numbers, Social Security numbers, A-Numbers, or other identifiers.
Separate answers
Your partner cannot see your choices before answering.
No account
No name, phone number, email, or exact age.
A conversation map
See alignments, differences, and what to discuss.
How it works
- 1. You answer privately.
- 2. Send your partner a private link.
- 3. The comparison opens after both finish.
The private link will open directly in the selected language.
AI is not used at this stage. You can separately decide whether to allow AI-assisted analysis after your partner also consents.
Where alignment matters most
- • what the couple will do if the case is delayed or denied
- • who makes immigration-process decisions and how
- • the budget before work authorization
- • independent access to documents, money, communication, and legal help
- • housing and a safe plan if the relationship ends
- • work, language, education, and career losses for the relocating partner
- • children, international travel, and possible relocation with a child
Clarify major differences here before making important joint decisions.
What is usually negotiable
- • frequency of travel to the other partner’s country
- • the language used at home
- • holidays and communication with relatives
How to read the result
Different answers do not prove dishonesty or predict an immigration outcome. They show which expectations need a concrete plan before filing, marrying, or relocating.
Model principle
Relocation and sponsorship do not give either partner the right to control the other person’s passport, money, communication, work, medical decisions, or access to independent help.
A separate legal step
Before filing, each partner should understand the chosen path and consider independent advice from a licensed immigration attorney. Prenuptial, property, and parenting questions also involve state family law. Neither a partner nor this service can promise a visa or case approval.
Official U.S. Department of State guidance