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Private questionnaire · 23 questions

Modern traditional marriage

Современный традиционный брак

For couples who want a modern traditional marriage with a primary male provider, shared decisions, and clearly defined family roles.

23 questions · about 11 minutes

Progress is saved automatically. Email is optional and only helps recover your private access.

Set up and start

Before you beginThese questions are not a contract. Each partner answers separately, and the responses are compared after both finish.

Separate answers

Your partner cannot see your choices before answering.

No account

No name, phone number, email, or exact age.

A conversation map

See alignments, differences, and what to discuss.

How it works

  1. 1. You answer privately.
  2. 2. Send your partner a private link.
  3. 3. The comparison opens after both finish.

The private link will open directly in the selected language.

How should answers be shown after completion?

Individual answers are shown only if both people consent.

AI is not used at this stage. You can separately decide whether to allow AI-assisted analysis after your partner also consents.

Where alignment matters most

  • • children
  • • decision-making authority
  • • the wife’s paid work
  • • money
  • • sexual intimacy
  • • religion and parenting

Clarify major differences here before making important joint decisions.

How to read the result

Agreement on broad phrases such as “the man provides and the woman creates a home” is not enough. Clarify how much financial support means, what homemaking includes, who makes decisions, and what happens when life does not go according to plan.

Model principle

A healthy modern traditional marriage is not one person’s control over the other. It is a voluntary division of roles in which both contributions are valued and the financially dependent spouse retains security and a voice.